Holiday Firsts

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This holiday weekend was a first for me. Actually two firsts. 

For the first time in decades of family dinners, I made the dressing. From scratch with cornbread and lots of fresh sage. It’s my mama’s recipe, with my grandmother’s tweaks and it was GOOD! 

I rested every day of the four day weekend. I rested *before* I got tired. And I loved it. Sleep and relaxation hit different when they’re not rewards for overworking. 

Photo description: a smiling selfie of me wearing a winter white sweater, red lipstick and twists, standing in front of my mantlepiece.



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